Friday, March 31, 2006

Friday Random Ten

The link to annamaria and jen's (different jen, btw) is in the title. thanks to annamaria for getting me started on this. hope you know the drill - make a random list of the music on your harddrive or mp3 player and post the first ten songs.
here's my list:
1)Does This Bus Stop at 82nd St? - Bruce Springsteen
2)You and Me Song - The Wannadies
3)When I Paint My Masterpiece - Grateful Dead
4)My Loneliness - Los Lonely Boys
5)I've Been To Memphis - Lyle Lovett
6)Grateful - Scarecrow Collection
7)Seasons - Good Charlotte
8)My Sweet Lord - George Harrison
9)Somos Mas Americanos - Los Tigres Del Norte
10)Natural Beauty - Neil Young

happy weekend y'all. remember the clock thing on saturday night and say a prayer for nicki (my youngest daughter), who is competing in the statewide interscholastic one-act play competition today. break a leg, kid!

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

After they jail Cardinal Mahoney in LA will they arrest the Chairman of the Board at Hormel?

HR 4437 has passed the House, and if enacted into law, makes it a felony to aid anyone who is illegally in this country to remain in this country. Cardinal Mahoney of the Catholic archdiocese in Los Angeles has indicated that he takes this bill to mean that the people at Catholic Charities would be violating the law when they provide assistance to people in need that have illegal immigrants as part of their family . He intends to have them continue to provide assistance to people in need regardless of anyone's immigration status. And he has stated he intends to do the same personally.

Here is the question I raise: Will those persons ultimately providing employment to undocumented workers ever have to face the music if this bill passes? Will they arrest the Chairman of the Board at Hormel because his actions are allowing undocumented workers to find employment in his company's packing plants, an act that aids them to remain in this country illegally? It's a ridiculous question ONLY because we know it will never happen.
The major corporations will argue that they follow the law and never knowingly provide employment to undocumented workers. It's a technically correct, but morally incorrect, assertion. Unless I'm totally out in left field the truth is that these corporations have simply shifted the way in which they engage the services of illegal immigrants since the passage of the last major immigration reform bill in the 1980's.
Prior to the bill in the 80's many corporations DIRECTLY employed a significant percentage of the undocumented workers in the US. They had their own version of "don't ask, don't tell." As long as they were not required to verify the citizenship or immigration status of an applicant they simply took every applicant's word at face value as to whether they had the legal status to be employed by the company. The reform bill of the 80's was supposed to dry up the pool of jobs available to undocumented workers by requiring employers to verify the status of job applicants. Without access to jobs, the argument went, illegal immigration would decline.
The reality is that the companies did not stop employing these workers. They simply shifted to INDIRECTLY engaging their services through contractors. To companies that were flying under the enforcement radar. The INS became overwhelmed by trying to keep track of an exploding number of records it had to check. So the enforcement process became draconian raids that NEVER exposed the corporations to any culpability in the act of employing undocumented workers. They were screened from accountability by subcontracting the work. It's the same process used to evade providing benefits under union contracts. Here, it shielded the corporate officers from the law.
But the bill passed by the House will change things. Under a one interpretation of the law we could hold corporate officers accountable if undocumented workers were found employed on their corporate premises. By providing the employment opportunity, even indirectly, they would be aiding a person who is illegally in this country to remain within the country illegally. Would we ever be able to get a conviction? Don't make me laugh. We'll never see the cuffs on a WalMart store manager, let alone a top officer in the corporation. This despite the fact that a number of WalMart's contractors who were providing janitorial services were found to be almost exclusively employing undocumented workers.
We are a nation of immigrants. It's an overused phrase, but true. There are very few of us who can claim to be indigenous. And even the Native Americans immigrated here from other parts of the world according to the theory that says their ancestors crossed the Bering Straits! So when are we going to stop listening to those who pander to our basest instincts -- appealing to our fears rather than truth? Our security is not enhanced by maintaining a system that is designed to exploit the most vulnerable portions of our communities. A system that increases the power and influence of those who circumvent the law (directly or INDIRECTLY!!!!)
And when are the advocates for undocumented workers going to understand that if we lose the ability to enforce our laws our civil rights are eroded? Our civil rights are sustained by how well we operate as a nation under law, equally and justly applied. Undermine the rule of law and you undermine our civil rights.
People desire to come to our land. And the vast majority of those who come are productive people who would be good additions to our citizenry. They are coming, whether we like it or not. Now how are we going to manage that flow of immigration? By opening our borders to realistic levels of legal immigration? Or by pushing it underground into unregulated channels where the most unscrupulous people benefit and good people are exploited, and even killed?
They're coming, and they're here. So get over it and deal with it! Responsibly. Intelligently. Compassionately. Because if we don't our problems are just beginning.

Monday, March 27, 2006

A Sister's Response to It's Hard to Be a Woman and Birthday Tribute

This post is from our sister Gretchen:

Wake’s blog about it being hard to be a woman and Kurt’s tribute to our father started me thinking. I was extremely fortunate to have grown up in a household with a father who didn’t think there was a limit to a woman’s world. (His girls were just as capable as his boys and it never occurred to him that we should be treated differently based on gender. The girls were just as capable of shoveling and pushing him out of a snowbank as the boys were capable of doing the dishes and sweeping the house.) He was raised by the original feminist - well, actually he was raised by his sister because his mother was too busy living her life and enjoying it to be tied down by children. But that’s another blessing to be discussed at another time.

Our father was an entrepreneur extraordinaire. Unfortunately, his ideas didn’t keep pace with his finances. He always wanted bigger and better. He was a genius who didn’t know how to channel his talents. (I think he may have suffered from a form of ADHD also as he was constantly moving from one idea to the other. A trait I seem to have inherited and have yet to master.) At one point he had a very successful machine shop but his impatience to move to bigger and better eventually caused this to collapse. He had more drive to succeed than any other person I know. Unfortunately, this was ultimately his downfall.

Our mother was the opposite. She was the very best Monday Morning Quarterback in history. She could tell you exactly how you should have done it or what you should have done, but never gave her opinion before you made the mistake. I’m fairly certain that was a result of her upbringing and general hatred of confrontation. Of course, my father probably wouldn’t have listened to her ideas as she tended to go at things too slowly for his taste. I assume one of the things that attracted them to each other was the very fact they were so opposite and she must have found him exciting until the little ones kept coming along and the paychecks didn’t. It’s hard to be supportive of bigger and better when you don’t know how you’re going to feed and clothe your children.

What amazes me most though is how they were able to meld such extremes and give us a sense of balance. I believe our mother grounded us and our father gave us the gift “to try”. For example, I’m now struggling with the concept of creating my own on-line store. I’ve done all the background studies (thank you Mom) and can see the vision of how this can happen (thank you Dad). What holds me back? A fear of failure? No. I’m not afraid to fail; God knows I’ve had enough practice in that department. I think I’m afraid of two things. That it will succeed and that I’ll grow tired of this new idea and want to move on to something else. My house is full of unfinished projects and I’m trying, in my old age, to stop and really decide if my new “desire” is something with staying power.

Being a woman who knows no bounds has it’s downside also but I’d rather have the opportunities to try anything I want than to live in a society who holds me back simply based on my gender, race, or any other reason they can think of.

Carpe Deim. Are you sure?

Seize the day. Enjoy the moment. Today is all we have for sure.

Such are some of the slogans that have been associated with the Latin phrase so many of us know. Many people claim it as a mantra or as a way they want to live their life. And yet I think we run from it as fast as we can many times.

For many, the phrase is twisted into an excuse for a self-indulgent existence that fails to deal with many basic human conditions. I say this, because I lived it. It was My Right to do what I wanted everyday. If that meant I was high or juiced or rude, well, that was just the way it was. I did not believe I would see 25 and so I lived a self-fulfilling prophecy trying to make it come true. "Carpe Diem" - it's my life and I will live it the way I want. Funny thing about that time. As high as I was, as high as Mr. Natural and I could climb, it wasn't that fun. Oh, I laughed alot. I made others laugh at me and with me, sometimes on purpose. I had a BLAST. But I didn't find it really satisfying to my inner self. There wsa no intimacy for me, no deep human connection, nothing spiritual. If I met my friends from back then today, we could easily sit down and start drinking or smoking, almost back where we were. Fortunately, I have seen several over the years and we don't try to tear it up like before, but we share our wonderment at how life worked out and how we have more than we imagined we would ever have. Families, places to live, reasonably good jobs, health (this is amazing!). We have found a depth to our lives that was unknown before.

For others, the phrase allows them to live with no thought of their future, both physical or spiritual. They only believe in what they can grasp, with their hands or their minds. Anything that is out of reach is going to stay out of reach, for the exercise and conditioning needed to expand their reach isn't addressed or undertaken. The girl of my dreams? A better job? College? A million reasons why not. Why make the effort if I could be dead tomorrow? I relate to this one too. I mean, I am a reasonably intelligent man who is happy to be a glorified shipping clerk at the moment.

Since tomorrow isn't promised, and you never know what could happen, I see people continue to shove things into the emotional/pyschological/spiritual attics of their lives, hoping they will be forgotten. Cloudy dreams unreal. I know, because I do it too. Avoidance is one of my more prominent personality traits. Why ruin a good day with things unpleasant?

So. Carpe diem. Are you willing to seize today? Live today like you never have lived before and never will again? What if your life was like a mosquito and you had 24 hours? Who would you let know you loved them? That they had a special place in your life? Would you bow your head and thank God for at least giving you this little bit of physical life and a spirit that touched others and was touched by others for eternity? Is gratitude something you taste everyday?

Carpe diem. What is the tune of your heartsong?

Sunday, March 26, 2006

Madness in March

by now, many of you are tired of the ncaa basketball tournament hype. i love it! my brother (wake) sent me an invitation to join a pick 'em tourney with some other people he knows. i declined the baseball fantasy league due to time constraints, but this one i filled in the teams and sent it in at exactly the deadline. it looks like i will finish ahead of wake this time and it has been worth it. almost like the wait for being able to actually beat him at basketball while growing up. his six year head start was overcome by my 4 inch height advantage, but even that did not make it easy and he didn't surrender willingly.
but life must be good for me - i don't care who wins the actual tournaments (women's or men's), i have no idea who the Rangers starting pitchers will be (i don't think they do either) and i have nothing to say about the dallas cowboys signing terrell owens (another pro athlete from the barroid bonds school of It's-All-About-Me).
warm days, lawns to mow, and a grill cooking fajitas.
descansa bien, amigos.