I always tell her she is more than that
Here's a link to an interesting op-ed. Read it, read my comment below, and tell me, am I stupid, or are they?
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/29/opinion/29fri4.html?em&ex=1167541200&en=a78b3d617c86f2bd&ei=5087%0A
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/29/opinion/29fri4.html?em&ex=1167541200&en=a78b3d617c86f2bd&ei=5087%0A
Fortunately things didn't get to the lap/pole dance stage when my daughter was in school. But they were swiftly headed there, and most parents thought it was just great. I could never understand how a woman who was a mid level executive could encourage her daughter to behave as a boy toy so that she would be cool and popular. Seems the dads I spoke with got it more than the moms. Some of them were actually horrified by what they saw. Most were just uncomfortable. The moms: they just thought it was so cool that their tweens were so hot! Someone doesn't get it. Is it me, or them?